How many times have you heard the phrase,
"People don't leave their jobs, they leave their bosses." or the
phrase "I like my job, but I hate my boss."?
According to, Westhill Consulting
Career and Employment, Australia, Employees don't leave bad companies; They
leave bad bosses. If the traits on this list don't sound familiar, perhaps you
are the bad bosses. When you select your em ployees, it is up to yo u to make
certain that they have the skills needed. Once the selection process is
complete and the employee is in place, back off and allow their individual
skills to enhance and grow the business. Micro-management only takes away from
the employee, and slows their growth to enhance the company performance. No
matter where you are in the world, Indonesia, Dubai, Europe or Africa, be
considerate of other people.
Stress, yes, stress, you are now
probably about to quit reading this, but believe it or not, good bosses are
actually supposed to give you stress. There are two kinds of stress, there’s
distress and eustress. Distress is the kind of stress you feel when you are
being bullied, manipulated, or abused. Then there is eustress, which is
positive stress brought on by good mentors and coaches who are trying to get
you challenge your limits and succeed, or by physical therapists who are
helping to strengthen your muscles to come back from an injury. A good boss
should be giving you eustr ess, if you have a boss who wants you to do your
best, he or she should be pushing you beyond your comfort zone, not (just) for
the company, but for you then he is a good boss. We can only develop and grow
when we have some degree of stress and this is something that great bosses
know, and use to help you.
Support, this is almost
self-explanatory, a good boss should always have your back in public. At times
a boss needs to be a bit tough on you. That's part of the job that is actually
tough for the bosses as well. If he or she wants to take you to task quietly
when no one is around, that's okay. But a boss who belittles, shames, or
"throws you under the bus" in front of other people, is not a good
boss. Public shaming is a no no and suggests that the problems you may be
having at work have to do with your boss, not you.
Success -- This is the most
important one. Your boss, like your parents, should be aiming for your success.
If you don't feel like your boss is looking for ways to help further your
career, or worse, is trying to sabotage you, then you don't have a boss -- you
have a problem. A good boss knows that when you look good he or she looks good.
Bosses that try to keep you down out of fear that you might outshine them are
toxic.
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